It surprises me that months and months after the original idea of theonlyglitterati.com came about people still have misconceptions about it and about its purpose. Those people like to take it upon themselves on judging something without truly knowing anything about it or even judging me. Originally the site was created to display gifts that my friends were given, whether writing, photography, design, painting...anything. In the beginning as a marketing technique Emily and I decided to make it sound like a clique. Something people would ask about. Something exclusive. Something unattainable. But that was before anything, before September, when things were only a little glimmer. People started wondering what the fuck the only glitterati was. Isn't that the whole point? People paying attention to your projects? No, it wasn't going to be another event photography website, and no we were not here to have people interested in what parties we were going to and what we were wearing one night although that helps people ask what you're doing. I stated clearly on our myspace in its first conception"a new online magazine to be presented to the public by the people that live, party, and work in counter culture. founded by a group of girls who after a while were constantly getting sick of how many people were becoming unfairly famous and others getting overlooked. too many girls have become objects of only esthetics, too many people have tried emulating things that they are not, personas, caricatures, and hype." Even the tagline "substance filled people and people filled substance". Not shameless self promotion, but an outlet for people who weren't getting any recognition in the first place. Yes, i do use connections i have to promote the website, but the website does not mean myself. If anything the website barely asks for people to think about me. I hand pick what goes on the site not for anyone else but me. If other people like it I'm happy. I like what I like and I'm happy to share it. But it offends me that my hard work is degraded into something trashy and stupid. It offends me when people i used to know do not think of me as people should, as a person, but objectify me and stereotype me into someone that I do not recognize. I will not feel sorry for creating this website. I created something that has helped me with opportunities I would not have been able to have before it. I suppose in a way it is selfish, I know the website does help with my resume and what, but this is what I would like to do. I write about bands, I interview people, if anything I shamelessly promote other people. I don't understand why anyone has resentment against me for any reason, I have not done anything offensive. I'm just a nice girl who works hard to get where I'm trying to go. Don't persecute me for it.
x
27.12.07
To whom it may concern
by the only glitterati at 9:59 PM
perfect boyfriend.
boys who live in dirty quarters.
paper cuts and unrequited love. bottle caps and lipstick pillow smears. bruises and magazine tear outs. breathless or anxious. inky rings around your eyes and bleeding lips. account withdrawn, the perfect party dress. no shirt, your shit. headphones and noise from the roof. cold bodies warm sheets. lungs feel heavy and tar. dust under the bed. late night fridge light. black clothes white winter. pack bags. unpack. fold. repeat. open door. lock door. unlock repeat. only believe what you've been told. it's safer. tambourine shakes. nicotine wake. i like that. bisou bisou bisou bisou.
by the only glitterati at 7:16 PM
nice things x x x x x x x x x x x
24.12.07
natalie portman's shaved head
I like doing phone interviews, although i think that i laugh too much at what bands tend to say and they tend to not like me so much after.
but not NPSH i really enjoyed them, i think we're equally silly and ridiculous.
here for the interview
by the only glitterati at 2:04 PM
nice things natalie portman's shaved head band
23.12.07
KITSUNE + CAZALS
CAZALS- TO CUT A LONG STORY SHORT (streetlife DJ'S mix)
kitsune loves cazals. who wouldn't. they consistently release honest, and honestly good songs.
forget their past. forget the pete doherty friendships and east end parties. kitsune has taken quite an interest in the cazals as they are the first and only "guitar band".
an excerpt from the band's history the label sent.
“We spent a long time on the arrangements,” Daniel continues. “We’re not one of those bands who just bash out a song.” It shows. ‘A Big Mistake’ is driven by lo-fi electronic drum loops; ‘We’re Just The Same’ a gorgeous, half-paced pop song that exhibits the French influence that has seeped into Cazals’ music; ‘Comfortable Silence’, meanwhile, is – frankly – bonkers experimentalism, the likes of which few British guitar bands would dare even attempt. Even in the more conventional moments here – the frenetic ‘Life Is Boring’, the aforementioned ‘Poor Innocent Boys’ – are awash with layer upon layer of unconventional noise. And then there’s closer ‘Time Of Our Lives’ – a song that begins its life as a genuine, piano-led weepy, then builds and builds into a waltzing mini-epic. For all the musical adventure that precedes it, it’s, y’know, moving. “That’s another thing which is important,” points out Phil, “Every song on the record is a true fucking story.”
xxxxby the only glitterati at 10:54 PM
nice things cazals, kitsune, streetlife dj's
20.12.07
awful
by the only glitterati at 12:38 PM
13.12.07
paint job
viron painted me as her university application.
two things: doesn't even look like me!
uh... bahahahahahahahaha at the description
"I painted Marlowe in black and white with a serious expression to illustrate the strength of our friendship. The background, however, is a vibrant red to show the energy and liveliness she brings into my life."
by the only glitterati at 2:10 PM
10.12.07
9.12.07
letters of success
i've reached the point of writer's block when it comes to writing my own shit like stories/essays you can probably tell in the lack of content in the LETTERS OF SUCCESS page on theonlyglitterati.com, now i don't know what to do about the whole situation. right now i've been reading Diary a novel by chuck palahniuk, and it is affecting my writing, so i've been coming up with darker themes. anyways, i watched august rush the other day slightly tipsy and i've decided that it would have been much better if at the ending there was a scene of a whole reunion. i almost felt unfulfilled and completely not assured that they would live happy all together. but maybe that was just the vodka and my sappy heart...
i feel like it's almost time to start writing resolutions for the new year. remind me to add these:
buy more polaroid film
start cleaning Pete's bowl more often.
keep my bedroom clean
clean out closet
don't take shit from pinheaded bitches.
by the only glitterati at 5:10 PM
nice things august rush, chuck palahniuk
6.12.07
3.12.07
dear 2007
thank you for the low points and the notable successes. the fifteen thousand tears shed and the ten thousand miles flown. the fifty new dresses in my closet and my expanded collection of shoes. thank you for making me tougher and evolving me. thank you for the nights out that turned into morning afters and the six inches my hair grew. thank you for the excessive alcohol intakes and cigarette burns. thank you for the unknown bruises on my legs and smeared makeup on my face. thank you for getting my heart broken and mending it, and the falling out of love with one person to falling in love with everyone. thank you for the car accident. thank you for the twelve walk of shames i walked and the mornings i woke in the clothes from the night before. thank you for vitamin water and brooklyn pizza. thank you for the duplex on 55th and 8th ave. and surviving my homeless London trip. thank you for taking me from being loved and then hated and then envied. thank you for being out of work and then overworked. thank you for helping me start my dreams. thank you for the friends i got and the friends i lost. thank you for my sex and the city dvd's that helped me through last winter. thank you for my best friends becoming closer and my long distance friends of whom i miss. thank you for brick lane and greenwich village, williamsburg and shoreditch boys. thank you for my warm blankets and good luck charms. thank you for holden caulfield and magnolia cupcakes. thank you for Viron and Gala. thank you for the boys that came and went. thank you for the boys in bands and girls with ice cream. thank you for the high's and low's, to's and fro's, conor oberst kisses, laughing fits, and emotional wreckage. thank you for making me another year older. thank you for being as hard as you were rewarding, i love you.
28 days left.
by the only glitterati at 4:56 PM
nice things 2007, emotional wreck, marlowe, obviously
2.12.07
30.11.07
let me help you with that
by the only glitterati at 11:16 PM
nice things Graham Spencer, Hanii, marc jacobs, MINT
23 questions with marlowe
1. Have you ever seen your best friend naked?
unfortunately due to many attempts it's now harder than ever to see my best friends naked.
2. What is the best thing about your life?
free drinks, press pass, free boys, nice clothes, pay day, ice cream, travel, nice friends, good cameras, expensive nailpolish, lipstick, good old drinking in the middle of the day, having danceparties in my apartment, my friends, and laughing about really stupid things. oh and DANCING TO BRITNEY SPEARS AND SPICE GIRLS.
3. Name something that you would love to eat right now?
i would like a milkshake and a cheeseburger
4. What do you think about boys?
i think everything about boys. i think up new ones everyday. i also objectify them a lot of the time.
5. Who did your last text message come from and what did it say?
it said "text mommy sandra, she did all the dinner planning". we call Sandra mommy sandra because she organizes our lives for us. like when we will have dinner with each other.
6. Are you happy?
I have seasonal depression, but sometimes when i'm sleeping i'm really happy, sometimes i wake up laughing i'm so happy. for serious though. but at this moment i'm not unhappy.
7. What's your favourite smell?
boys, mint tea, freshly baked goodness. london streets and brooklyn pizza.
8. What is your least favorite sound?
people i hate speaking.
9. Are you moody?
i'm human and a little girl growing up, when i don't get my way i throw things.
10. Have you ever tried to get back with an ex?
sex with an ex is best, but not actually...burn
11. Have you ever gone camping?
i camped outside a door once for about an hour.
12. Listening to music? What are you listening to?
i'm listening to heartsrevolution duh
13. Where are your siblings right now?
i don't have any sorry
14. Name five things you did today:
ate a few vitamins
bedroom danced
ate a bagel
got my phone to work
found a secret out about a band
15 .Last person who text messaged you?
carmee- refer back to the mommy sandra thing
16. What are you doing tomorrow?
kissing you
17. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
if i remembered than maybe
18. Are you allergic to anything?
springtime
19. Is anyone jealous of you?
yes.
20. Where were you 2 hours ago?
in my room bedroom dancing
21. What were you doing last night?
drinking rum and coke and dancing
22. What are you looking forward to?
christmas presents and london
23. What do you think about being cheated on?
that happens to people? i hardly knew
by the only glitterati at 12:33 PM
nice things marlowe, theonlyglitterati.com
29.11.07
i just want a boy with good teeth and nice jeans
put bacardi in your coca cola run a midday in the freezing cold. get your fingers turn purple as you smoke outside. your white raybans don't fit your face. make new friends. and when you get your bag checked at a museum it's always funny when the lady looks in and says "a bottle of booze, how cute"
the staff at the ROM thinks i'm an alcoholic. lovely.
by the only glitterati at 6:30 PM
28.11.07
ldn eng
i spent a lot of time as a child in london and i consider it my second home. right now i miss it too much. i miss the way the city cheered up by just a slight bit of sun peeking through the clouds. i miss how i could only walk a half hour in my heels because of the cobble stone. i miss how i always saw the entire night go from dark to light and i always went home when the sun was about to rise. i miss the way men helped me with my luggage in the airports and train stations. i miss the kids. i miss the parties. i miss london! take me home.
by the only glitterati at 11:19 PM
horoscopes
there's this movie (i don't remember the title) where the super popular girl is on a date with the nerd and they're looking at the stars and he's explaining constellations and she says "i love astrology" and he's like "that's like horoscopes, this is astronomy"
"Stop fantasizing about romance with a loser. You’ll get the answer to a question. A tallish woman will get in your way."
anyways the above was my horoscope of today. i kind of laughed when i read it but out of pure self pity. the first sentence was needed to be said. because really, that's all i do. fantasize romance with losers.
my lovely friend joy off of uglysmile.blogspot.com
by the only glitterati at 6:58 PM
nice things horoscopes, joy mattar, love, uglysmile.blogspot.com
27.11.07
25.11.07
modern life
i remember when pink enemy started. that makes me feel old. but yeah, back in 2005 i thought they were amazing for writing a song about dakota fanning's sweet seduction. click to read my interview with cc cunningham here
by the only glitterati at 9:51 PM
nice things cc, chad cunningham, interview, pink enemy
24.11.07
today's special
now you may leave your opinons/love/hate on anything you like on the blog.
though i doubt people would. xxxx
by the only glitterati at 8:58 PM
23.11.07
22.11.07
jewels of all colours
where we going? how are we getting there? how much money is on our wallets? how much heart do we have left in our bodies? where are we staying? when's the last train? when can i sleep?
by the only glitterati at 9:42 PM
secrets
each day gets colder and colder and each day i wish to fade into the white walls and disrupt their peace. i'm sick of my idea and my concepts and the storyline i'm made out to play. i count my fingers one by one squeezing each just to make sure i'm real. what if i turned around and ran the other way? delete my life and forget my friends? xxxxx
miss stephanie n.
by the only glitterati at 9:19 PM
21.11.07
obsessions
1) the new britney spears album
2) erin fetherston
3) Ellen von Unwerth
4) all the boys in the Burberry campaigns
by the only glitterati at 8:35 PM
19.11.07
18.11.07
the cocktail party
what a mess! my apartment was in ruins after. i wish everyone came, and to those who did thank you so much. sorry i may have stuffed cake into your face. a girl gets bored.
find the photos here
by the only glitterati at 7:35 PM
17.11.07
fluokids
pharrell loves to say j'taime and i love you a lot
i love him for it!
xxx
read the interview here
by the only glitterati at 9:56 AM
nice things fluokids pharrell
16.11.07
13.11.07
i-d magazine
someone send me where i'm in the i-d space page in the december issue.
i just keep hearing of it i want to see it!
xxxxxx
by the only glitterati at 8:22 PM
11.11.07
the wishlist
in true spirit of this time of year, and when i say that i mean the only day i call my own.
please get me the following things,
more will be added. but basically come prepared with red velvet and pink
by the only glitterati at 10:33 PM
to whom it may concern
save the ones that understand.
make no mistake she sheds her skin like a snake, on the dirty road to fame
There She Goes- Babyshambles
(from the new album Shotter's Nation)
if you hate the fucking tabloids clap your hands.
by the only glitterati at 7:31 AM
you're taking my breath away
apparently a photo of mine will be appearing in some college in toronto's newspaper,
accompanying an interview with my close friends Les Saboteurs
i have a feeling it is this one
by the only glitterati at 7:05 AM
10.11.07
9.11.07
my clavicles don't match
i'm so tired and my head feels too light and the clock is on the wall and it is not going fast enough. the ticking should be blurred and my eyes should be wide. there is never anything on television and my cds are scratched. the record is replaying and your heart is in my hand. my head oh! my head. my headphones have voices of boys i wish to meet but will be disappointed. the crowd at the bar is making me sick, "no, it is not the alcohol". I like the drum roll, I like the way my stomach feels when it's playing so loud. churn the insides make them pretty. please. like a milkshake of the senses and smooth with no bubbles. make me feel calm and make me feel right. a plane ride away is always easier than it sounds. i wish the lines on my paper could form the lines of your face. when will i move? when will i take off? when will it happen? blown kisses never make their way to mouths and the other side of the bed is wrinkly and cold. you say things to make her feel golden but she's not she's rusting each day. i'm mixing myself up each day in my house. my words have jumbled into monsters and they hide under my bed with my shoes and camera boxes. my friends are beginning to grow in numbers and i hate how i can't count them on my hands and feet. throw them away when they've lost their flavour because no one is as fun as you wish they are. no one can be as perfect as you've pictured and your favourite people are tarnishing. I want the cold wind to pass through my limbs and I want my body to fall over and accept the force. I want the freckles on my cheek to be noticed and my mirror to break. I'm sick of you and you and you. I still want to be in the game, but it's turning pale. Stop living to show everyone else how you're living. just be. I don't believe what i have to deal with. who the fuck do you think you are?
by the only glitterati at 3:24 PM
8MTS NOVEMBER PLAYLIST
my dj friend 8MTS will now be giving us his monthly playlist that he's been diggin' while he is the regular table turner at the miami legend STUDIO A
8MTS NOVEMBER PLAYLIST
7.11.07
Marlowe's annual cocktail party
I used to throw tea parties, and now i throw cocktail parties.
it is at my apartment and i will be filming for my doc on working on.
invite only.
more on that later.
BLUSHING LADY
INGREDIENTS:
- 1 oz PAMA Pomegranate Liqueur
- 2 oz vodka
- 1 oz pink grapefruit juice
- lemon wedge
- coarse sugar for rimming
PREPARATION:
Rub a wedge of lemon around the rim and of a martini glass and dip the glass into a plate of coarse sugar.by the only glitterati at 7:46 PM
5.11.07
Hedi Slimane
I have always been a fan of his, and for good reason.
No one really credits him with his photography.
His photos encapsulate british rocknroll youth so much, it's hard to ignore.
I really love his textural shots as well.
Here are my favourite shots at the moment.
but really he knows EVERYONE.
xx marlowe
by the only glitterati at 7:39 AM
nice things hedi slimane
The Daze
The boys of The Daze are so wonderful and talented, see the interview I had with Felix the drummer, here.
by the only glitterati at 7:36 AM
nice things the daze band
3.11.07
the press
I was thinking about it today, it's odd I have always hated the press. Journalists in general I really despise. I know that I am halfway to being some kind of second rate journalist but I will not have it. The press sucks the life out of everything. I hate that. I can never really describe what theonlyglitterati.com is, kind of like a magazine, kind of like a blog. My friend Kavin W of sharkvsbear.com described it as "kind of like the diary of a cool kid". I ask questions that I would ask someone I was getting to know. I choose the people to interview because I think they'd be cool friends, sometimes they are my friends already, sometimes we become friends. I would like to think I help blur the lines between what's appropriate and what's not. Take them out to a party, let them stay at your house. It's weird because I don't even think that's strange, I think that it's nice.
xx
marlowe
by the only glitterati at 7:03 PM
2.11.07
heartschallenger
I did an interview with Heartschallenger a ways back in september when i was in new york. The two are such lovely people. You can see the interview here
one of my favourite dj's lazaro casanova did a nice mix of heartsrevolution songs
leyla told me the secret that they were doing a CYOA remix compilation cd.
JOIN THE REVOLUTION
by the only glitterati at 1:30 AM
nice things ben, heartschallenger, heartsrevolution, leyla, lo
1.11.07
let's kiss and make up
THIS IS THEONLYGLITTERATI.COM'S BLOG.
WHERE I WILL PUT LITTLE THINGS THAT DON'T NEED TO BE ON THE WEBSITE WILL BE FOUND HERE.
keep your hemline above your knees, never have chipped nails, smoke menthols and keep fresh.
by the only glitterati at 5:59 PM